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Sending messages like "we need to talk" with no follow-up for hours is a good way to keep her anticipating your next move. For example, an appropriate response to the question, "What are you doing tonight? Are you advertising a two-bedroom apartment with your male roommates? This is important: Don't call someone you're just casually texting, and don't call someone who first texted you. It's way too soon for voice-to-voice communication. Just like real life, people like it when you validate their good sense of humor, so give a hearty "BAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA" each time he says something mildly amusing. Respond to all of his jokes include multiple exclamation points at the end of positive responses.