Separated men dating

More often than not, it’s anger, self-pity, and feelings of entitlement that fuel a man’s complaints over support. So if you decide to stick around, I’d recommend you prepare for more than a nose full.

He might feel he deserves more of a say, more over how she spends the money, among other things. If he was the perpetrator: Though some experts say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”, I personally think that some people can learn from past mistakes.

And not to say that you aren’t special, but his infatuation with you has less to do with who you are than how this relationship is presently making him feel.

Rest-assured, his garbage is going to come out – and lucky you, you’ll end up helping him sort it.

The bottom line is that going through a divorce requires a lot of him – he must grieve, heal, hash through legalities, potentially adjust to single parenting and financial limitations, as well as rediscover a new sense of who he is today.

You also end up keeping company with someone who is aloof, moody, defensive and/or crabby. If your separated man isn’t seeing much of his kids, this should be seen as a warning, not a “bonus” (cause it’s more time spent with you, right? One reason he’s not parenting could be because he and his wife are disagreeing over child custody and access.

Maybe she’s maliciously blocking the kids from seeing him, maybe she has excellent reason to block him, maybe a court date (or five) lies ahead in his future.

The thing about anger is that it uses up a lot of energy and space in your separated man’s brain and heart.

That’s energy and space that he can’t and won’t channel into you in positive ways. He doesn’t consistently spend time with his children.

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